Crowdsourcing: Resources for dealing with difficult family members
This post is for people to share good resources about how to survive having to spend time with these people. Drop links in the comments and I'll add them to the post.
Dealing with difficult behaviour from family members
https://www.selfdefensefund.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Verbal-Defense.pdf
https://www.amazon.com/You-Cant-Say-That-Me/dp/0471003999
https://www.amazon.com/How-Disagree-Without-Being-Disagreeable/dp/0471157015
https://accelerate.uofuhealth.utah.edu/leadership/how-to-disagree-without-being-disagreeable
https://divethru.com/how-to-have-difficult-conversations-with-your-loved-ones/
https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-navigate-difficult-relationships-with-family-5120173
https://www.marriage.com/advice/family/abusive-family-members/
https://www.tonyrobbins.com/mental-health/dealing-with-abusive-family-members/
https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/toxicfamilyholidayguide
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/deal-with-narcissist/
https://www.fairparkcounseling.com/how-to-deal-with-a-drunk-family-member/
https://www.thedailymeal.com/holidays/13-things-never-discuss-thanksgiving-dinner/
https://www.beliefnet.com/love-family/holidays/12-rules-for-a-more-peaceful-and-happy-holiday.aspx
Talking about difficult topics with family members
Resources for children:
https://jgateways.org/news/blog/talking-about-israel-with-children-with-disabilities-and-mental-health-needs/ (broadly applicable to any hot topic)
https://reformjudaism.org/reform-jewish-life/youth-family-community/parenting/how-talk-children-about-conflict-israel
Recommended Books
"The Verbally Abusive Relationship" by Dr Patricia Evans
"The Gentle Art of Verbal Self Defense" By Dr Suzette Elgin
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